To Give or Not to Give: That is the Question

I need some advice!

I appreciate the people my husband works for, and I want to give a thoughtful gift for Christmas. I don’t want to start any obligatory gift giving, so I want it to be thoughtful without being serious. I thought I had come up with the perfect gift, but now I’m second-guessing myself after my husband called it stupid.

My husband does his best brainstorming in the shower. He takes these incredibly long showers standing under the water and when he finally comes out, he has all these great ideas to start his day. I thought some of his partners might do the same thing. They are all big thinkers (executive/consultant-types) who solve other people’s problems. So, I ordered these aquanotes, a notepad and pencil that works in the shower.

My husband thinks it is silly and wants me to forget it. What do you think? I want to deliver these today, so please give me some feedback!

The Best Laid Plans

I finally bit the bullet and started migrating all my blogs onto one server. I didn’t really understand what that meant until now, but everytime I called my domain folks they told me that’s what I should do. Well, I waited for a time when I could afford to put some attention to doing it and that time was last week.

It’s not as easy as one would think. I thought I had a backup plan for everything, but, the best laid plans… you know the rest. So here I am, slowly fixing links and attempting to follow directions doing some web stuff I’m not really qualified to do, and hoping for the best. As you can see, my old stylesheet hasn’t been brought over yet and the hotel where I am currently staying has really bad internet reception (so I’m not able to use my FileZilla).

We don’t always get to control what comes our way, but the skill is in how we handle it. Right? So, I just decided to post what is going on with my site and hope you forgive me and come back again later when it is all fixed. I have also decided to chalk this up to a learning experience. I learned that I have a lot to learn. Some experts say that’s a first step in becoming a better leader. If I were in leadership, I’d keep that one to myself!

Job Relocation: Top 7 Places to Avoid

We can’t always chose to stay put, but we certainly want to go somewhere we won’t regret. Below are seven places to avoid when considering a new job or location.

Topeka, Kansas

Topeka City Council recently voted to repeal the city’s misdemeanor domestic battery law. In other words, if you move to Topeka your spouse can beat you or your child and get away with it. So much for common sense.

Anywhere in Michigan

Property taxes are high enough for long-timers who have been somewhat protected by increase limits, but property tax calculations are not as kind if you move to a house that can be reassessed by the city. Some folks report paying five figures in annual property taxes. Businesses are avoiding Michigan, too, because of the unrealistic tax burden they would suffer.

Miami, Florida and Long Island, New York

If you’re planning to need medical care, you may want to know which states are kind to doctors, and which ones chase them away with high malpractice insurance rates. California and Texas have caps on malpractice awards which has identified them as doctor-friendly states (according to Medscape Medical News). However, Miami, Florida and Long Island, New York top the list of places charging surgeons and obstetricians outrageous rates.

Knoxville, Tennessee

If you suffer from seasonal allergies, the beautiful Smoky Mountain view may not make up for the misery you experience in the spring. According to the Asthma and Allergy Foundation, Knoxville has the highest pollen score.

Stockton, California

High crime rates and unemployment put Stockton, California on the top of the list of cities too dangerous to live in, according to the FBI. Don’t write off California all together, though. Irvine, California was rated the safest city.

East St. Louis, Illinois

Do you pick your city according to which schools are the best? If so, you may want to avoid East St. Louis, Illinois where Tomorrows Builders Charter Schools state test scores were too aweful to believe. Interestingly, though, five of the top 25 worst performing schools were located in South Carolina.

Leaving a Legacy Worth its Weight in Time

I was recently invited to a breakfast focusing on Creating a Legacy as an entrepreneur. I wasn’t sure what to expect (people are always trying to sell something these days) but I was intrigued by the prospect that business owners would invest time in the name of social conscience. I was curious who would show up, and if they would really be committed to investing time for the greater good. Read the rest of this entry »

Top 10 Reasons I Stayed Married to You

In honor of our 21st wedding anniversary, I put together the top ten reasons I stayed married to my husband. My reasons might be humorous, but having someone to joke with and who loves me for ME is the greatest blessing I can imagine. Read the rest of this entry »

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