Posts Tagged ‘executive spouse’

Six Degrees of Separation (Plus or Minus Four)

John Guare, creator of the play Six Degrees of Separation, was more right than people gave him credit for when he presented the Kevin Bacon concept. His understanding of how closely people’s lives are intertwined was truly insightful. One of the characters in his play says:

“I read somewhere that everybody on this planet is separated by only six other people. Six degrees of separation….It’s a profound thought….How every person is a new door, opening up into other worlds.”

Take a moment to consider that statement. Every person you talk to is no more than six people away from knowing the person you are talking about! If you don’t live in a large city, that separation may actually be closer to three or four. This theory of six degrees was tested in 2007 by Eric Horvitz of Microsoft Research and Jure Leskovec of Carnegie Mellon University. Cutting to the chase of their results… people are indeed separated by an average path length of 6.8. So, the next time you begin to say something you wouldn’t want repeated, think about who might end up hearing it.

On the other hand,  this concept can also work to your advantage. If you want to connect with a specific person, start reaching out. Six degrees isn’t that much and taking on the challenge might be fun!

Related Link:
Proof of Six Degrees of Separation

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Rising To New Heights With Your Wingspouse

I appreciate your feedback. Would you consider being a wingspouse?

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What Wives Wish Executives Understood

usually write to the people married to c-suite executives, but my recent post Take Charge of Recharging inspired a counter-post directed to YOU, the executives. Too many times, executives forget that while they are working hard, so are we. While they are being drained of every ounce of energy away from home, we are making sure everything keeps going at home. While they are trying to manage direct reports, we are taking more than our share of the responsibilities on our shoulders. (more…)

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Take Charge of Recharging

Sometimes leaders have to be reminded to maintain their own mental health, just as they care for the health of their organization. This is a duty commonly carried out by a right-hand man; the one most trusted by a leader and most in tune with the leader’s needs. As a wingspouse, this responsibility should ideally fall on you. You know your spouse better than anyone else, and can speak honestly when stress becomes apparent. So take charge. Recognize when your spouse is not as effective as he could be… understand what is necessary leading up to a vacation… and facilitate this recharging process. (more…)

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Social Butterfly or Networking Animal

Social events are great opportunities to make valuable connections. Whether a formal ball or a building dedication, the relationships you build there may be beneficial later. Skillful mingling is not difficult if you follow some simple guidelines. (more…)

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