Posts Tagged ‘spoil your mate’

Are You an A.S.S. in Your Marriage

Gosh, I like this guy, Ayo. He seems to “get it” when it comes to romance. Now, I’m not condoning some of the dating advice he gives, but if you’re married – his marriage advice is worth checking out. The wisdom inĀ How to Make Your Wife Feel Loved Every Day basically boils down to; Appreciate, Serve, Spoil.

I love my husband more every day partly because I adore him, but also because I have no doubt about how he feels about me. He never forgets to say thank-you or tell me I am valuable, he calls me from work just to talk, and he makes me coffee every morning. He doesn’t even drink coffee! Does that make him an A.S.S.? That is… one who

Appreciates
Serves
Spoils

Most definitely!

Ayo’s post made me examine if I have been doing the same for my spouse. I say I love you, but usually in response to him. I make him wonderful dinners… but that’s my role. I’m pretty sure I spoil him… but not intentionally. How embarrassing. I don’t even stop to give him a passionate kiss anymore. Life just seems to be too rushed. Truth be told, I give myself a pass because I feel like I’m doing so much. Now who feels like the…

No more excuses. If my husband can be an A.S.S. then so can I. Thanks, Ayo, for opening my eyes.