Topic: ‘The Male Wingspouse’

Manswers to Wingspouse Criticism

(Guest Post: a male wingspouse pov)

Unfortunately feminism has convinced most women that the concept of the wingspouse is archaic, and men are not socialized to be in the role in the first place. It’s just so obvious that an executive who wants to succeed and have a well-rounded family life NEEDS a wingspouse.  Most of the professional women that are my wife’s peers are expected to do most of the support roles for the husband and even many of the husbands find their resources diverted.  This isn’t even counting the couples who are divorced.  What I give my wife makes her road so much easier. (more…)

Radical Role Reversal of a Male Wingspouse

There has been a lot of buzz recently about women and the name change struggle. Article after article has examined society’s impression of taking a spouse’s name. I thought it would be timely to share this wingspouse’s story. Meet Mr. S. Mr. S wrote: (more…)

The Tables Turned

Until now, I haven’t had the time to focus on something that was just mine. In the last few years, though, Mark has hit his stride with his career, our boys are nearly out of the house, and I have had time to focus on starting my own business. I started out intending to return to my roots as a writer, but wingspouse took on a life of it’s own and here I am along for the ride. It has been exciting and scary at the same time.

Recently, my husband and I have switched places as I reentered the professional world. He is acting as my wingspouse. I couldn’t be luckier having someone with his skill giving me advice, but it’s tough listening to a second opinion… especially when it doesn’t agree with mine. Mark has more faith in me than I do. If it were up to him, I would be off to the races without a thought. I’m not that confident. I believe I have what it takes to succeed, but I haven’t tested the waters in a long time. Every step he pushes me, I sigh in relief when I don’t fail. I get a little more confident each time. (more…)

Gender Handicaps the Wingman Should Consider

If your spouse is a female executive, you already recognize some of the gender differences she deals with on a regular basis. And if you’re a wingman, you realize that you have to approach your role differently than a woman might. You can’t walk up to some one’s wife and ask if she wants to have lunch sometime. But looking beyond the obvious, are there gender-specific considerations you haven’t thought of? Maybe. (more…)

Interview with Lee Matheson

I recently had the pleasure to interview a charming gentleman who truly understands the value of a wingspouse lifestyle. His name is Lee Matheson. He is a chef, actor, licensed realtor, and married to realtor and entrepreneur Judith Matheson.

photo provided by INCLINEDESIGN

photo provided by INCLINEDESIGN

In this recorded interview, Lee shares how he and Judith met, and how they decided to work together to grow Judith’s business. Lee explains that he is still pursuing his acting career, but never leaves Judith flying solo. His view to their marriage is moving and inspirational, and his approach to their shared career is impressive.

Don’t miss the wonderful advice Lee shares with other men who want what he has!

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Lee shares how he and Judith first met and how they got into real estate. (approx 4 minutes)

Matheson Interview Part 1

Lee shares how he and Judith became equal partners and what that means in their daily operations. (approx 6.5 minutes)

Matheson Interview Part 2

Lee reflects on what Judith appreciates about him. He also gives advice to other men who want to get more out of their relationship. (approx 5 minutes)

Matheson Interview Part 3

Related links:
Men Behind Successful Women
Interview with Judith Matheson

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